August 2010
2 posts
Anonymous asked: I CHEATED ON MY BOYFRIEND LAST NIGHT. fuuuuck. what do i do?? should i tell him? or just keep it to myself? if i don't tell him, he'll never know. but still..
Anonymous asked: This blog hasn't been updated in forever :( I check it often hoping for new posts!
July 2010
15 posts
Anonymous asked: For the last three years I have been friends with one of my ex's old best friends. Recently I realized that I like him as more than a friend.
I've discussed everything from relationship troubles to obscure movies with him and our conversations usually turn deep and introspective. He's one of the most intelligent people I know (book and people smart), as well as the funniest,...
I've discussed everything from relationship troubles to obscure movies with him and our conversations usually turn deep and introspective. He's one of the most intelligent people I know (book and people smart), as well as the funniest,...
Anonymous asked: Alright, so I went out with this guy for a little less than a year. The entire time, we had a really rocky relationship and it was pretty off and on. The only reason I stuck around is because I was totally head over heels about this guy. I've never actually "liked" someone so intensly like that. And it was pretty clear that he didn't feel the same. He's always had issues...
Anonymous asked: dearest sade,
so i've been going out with this dude for about five years
and we're already talking marriage
and i love the guy no doubt and most likely will forever
i'm not in love with him, i know that.
i've been in love with my best friend since the day we met
but she's...well a chick and i could never....i wouldn't want to...
so i've been going out with this dude for about five years
and we're already talking marriage
and i love the guy no doubt and most likely will forever
i'm not in love with him, i know that.
i've been in love with my best friend since the day we met
but she's...well a chick and i could never....i wouldn't want to...
Anonymous asked: I'm seeing a guy in a band, who has coincidentally broken my heart before claiming he wasn't over his ex of 5 years. He told me from the beginning of the relationship that he couldn't commit to me, but fed me lines like" you inspire me", "I wrote a song about you tonight" and invited me over to drink wine, have deep conversation, and hookup intensely. It made me...
Anonymous asked: I'm dating an older guy (I am 24 he's 38, and we are homo) we are in love, and everything is pretty much perfect, for now. I know he does not want kids ever and openly hates children. While I think its hilarious that he hates kids, I do know that I want kids in ten or fifteen years. I feel kinda shitty though knowing that in the future we may have to break up over this issue. Am I...
Anonymous asked: <p>If you liked someone who had recently broken up with a close friend of yours, how long would you wait to pursue it (if at all)?
This is taking into account that the friend still kinda has feelings for him.</p>
This is taking into account that the friend still kinda has feelings for him.</p>
Anonymous asked: Ugh. "Not Sade" is insufferable. People wanted advice from SADE, not some random bitch male who now thinks it's his job to be cruel and give unbalanced opinions. Get outta here with that.
Sade, you're amazing and your advice is perfect, fair, and on spot. Keep up the good work. But get rid of that dude.
Sade, you're amazing and your advice is perfect, fair, and on spot. Keep up the good work. But get rid of that dude.
Anonymous asked: Okay Sade. So I come here embarrassed and ashamed and looking for sanity...I've been chatting with this kid from Last.FM and he like, offered to mail me some cd's and shit. So I added him on facebook out of sheer curiosity because our music taste was so alike and he seemed like a cool person. Turns out he's adorable as FUCK and now I have a major cyber crush on him.......tits....
Anonymous asked: FUCK i think i am in with love my best guy friend i am getting all these fuzzy feelings around him these days and i don't fucking want them. i know we would just break each others hearts because we are the polar opposites of each other. i tried writing a long-ass list of cons about him but it didn't work because really, he is one of my favorite people ever. it's so lame, i have a...
Anonymous asked: How do you keep your self-esteem so high when you go through shitty romance problems?
Anonymous asked: how bitchy is it of me to want to hook up with a friend of mine who I know has more serious feelings about me just because he's there and I'm too lazy to look for random dudes elsewhere? We've hooked up a few times in the past under the influence of a lot of alcohol and though he's into it at the time, he always gets upset afterwards when I won't "give him a...
Anonymous asked: I have a friend who has been in a 4 months long relationship with a guy she's never met. Like, he lives in Australia and she is from Utah. What is your opinion on relationships like these? Should I say something to her? She has her sleeping schedule all messed up and I am worried it's not good for her? Then again, it's not any of my business. What do I do?!?
Anonymous asked: <p>Best way to break up with someone?</p>
Anonymous asked: do you suck le cock? ;)
tell me your techniques...
id love to hear them.
i want sade to answer this.
PLEASE.
tell me your techniques...
id love to hear them.
i want sade to answer this.
PLEASE.
Sade, I’ve been following your blog for a really long time now, and I’m a huge fan. I guess it doesn’t really help that I’m anonymous, but I figured I’d join in on this “Ask Alice” session since it seems to be the thing cool kids are doing these days (or just losers like me who write in people’s ask boxes they’ve never met before anonymously). Anyhow, I actually do need advice or something.I’m...