Anonymous asked: Alright, so I went out with this guy for a little less than a year. The entire time, we had a really rocky relationship and it was pretty off and on. The only reason I stuck around is because I was totally head over heels about this guy. I've never actually "liked" someone so intensly like that. And it was pretty clear that he didn't feel the same. He's always had issues with talking about his feelings and stuff, and he did admit to me once that he was happiest with me, and he did love me, etc. But he always had eyes on other girls, and he would say some really cruel things to me sometimes. So of course, the relationship ended. But now, 6 months later, we've started talking a bit again. And actually hooking up. It's kind of a no-strings situation, and I know he has no feelings for me whatsoever, but I'm still so drawn to him. I don't know what it is. I feel so retarded for still being here, but I like the sex and I like seeing him again. I know what I SHOULD do, but I still have feelings for him and I don't want to cut ties.

I don’t really know what you expect me to say. You WILL get hurt again. You know what you need to do. If you’re fine with selling yourself short and getting used by someone who is taking advantage of your feelings, then that’s your prerogative. Do whatever you want, because you already said that you don’t want to cut ties. So again, not sure what you’re looking for here but I will say that I understand completely, we all have that Brody Jenner. Lord knows I do. As long as you realize that nothing has changed and you’ll come out of this feeling just as shitty as last time, then you’re a big girl and if you want to have sex with someone who has no feelings for you then go for it. But don’t trick yourself into thinking that he’s going to magically change.